Relationships: Have you given your hugs today

Relationships like flowers bloom when they are cared for like beautiful plants!

The petals of a gorgeous rose, each component of the bloom complement one another. Just like each person in a partnership.

Each is part of the whole, individual and still part of the bigger picture.

In relationships, the thriving is in the cooperation, in the increased sense of mutuality!

What exactly does mutuality mean.?

It means being:

Supportive, Aware of someone’s needs beyond your own. Curious and delighted. Seeing the joy in being together.

And so how to water and fertilize this human grouping?

Ask yourself this exact question and mull on it for a bit.

How could I make my other self happier?

How can I be supportive?

How can we increase our joy at being together.

It is in the searching that we take that first step towards a successful coupling. In the caring, really. In the growing ability to think outside our own box, and find really worthy the needs of another. Magnificently, as your partner blossoms so do you.

There are many fun exercises to help you work on your relationship and grow; as always it is the intent to enrich the experience and the search for the adventure that increases life’s happiness and joy and the strength of your mutual bond.

Often, relationships are just a hit and miss experience with no real training, no thinking, just a ricocheting of experience with gut level reaction and emotion with no real skill for work with a partner, much less yourself.

Responding with love and understanding and a real supportive attitude comes from digging in and seeking strategies that engender success. Yes of course there is always the beauty of spontaneity, but planned effort is a key component.

Couples: As a life coach, I would invite you to enjoy a few sessions with me delving into strategies and methods of success in the area of couplehood.

As a couple you would learn about

Values,

Shared meaning systems,

Love maps and how to enhance them,

How to quickly repair and grow from conflict,

how to enhance fondness and admiration

And wherever the tide takes you will have the ultimate purpose of always strengthening your relationship bond

As always we can use hypnosis as an adjunct to the experience, communicating with the rich and creative subconscious, making suggestions and asking for direction, as well. Call me let’s have some fun.

The learnings cannot help but be inestimable. Can you really imagine spending years together being buffeted by unskilled communication, when with a well thought our plan of action with long lived strategies in place, you could enjoy growth, collaboration and true love and understanding?

Have you hugged your partner today?

Water your relationship with fun and laughter